To reclaim a healthier version of success, Kristi challenged us to shift from autopilot to intentional living, starting with how we lead ourselves. Her practical tools offer a roadmap for realignment: 

• A “1 in, 1 out” rule for intentional commitments: for every new yes, something else must come off your plate, helping you protect your energy and avoid silent overload 
• A “trigger map” exercise to identify the habits, situations or signals that lead to burnout 
• Using AI (yes, really) to help surface deeper insight and honest self-reflection 
• And perhaps most powerfully: a Reclamation Journal to reconnect with your why 

Together, these tools help reframe success not as a fixed destination, but a reflection of who you are becoming. 

Success evolves. You do, too. The bravest thing you can do is pause and ask: Does my definition of success still serve me?  

Ask yourself these three questions today (and come back to them often): 

• What version of success am I chasing, and who wrote that script? 
• What do I need to unfollow to find clarity? 
• What would it look like to lead myself well, starting now?